NLP in Relationship
Relationships are relatively easier to form but understanding does not build up on their own. One needs to work out different strategies with different people to create bonding and understanding because every one is unique. What sustains relationship is when you consciously know, accept and respect the difference between you and others. And unconsciously express so that others deeply sense it.
This where NLP has a gift of a useful set of presuppositions, people are unique and make best choice available to them.
This adjust your basic attitude right and provide launch pad to gravitate off and enter into others orbit – and appreciate their model of world.
Further more NLP gives you strategic insight of others non-verbal expressions. You quickly understand what is going on inside others head and link it has to their neurological cues.
You get tools to experiment with other intentions and respond to their deep held criteria and establish trust. You also model excellence from any successful relationship and apply to most challenging situations that create rapport.
With NLP it become easier for you to notice others pattern and utilize them as tip of the iceberg to reach to the wider base down in their mind. You awareness shifts from words to sound and physiological movement that impact most part of your communication. It becomes easier for you to take responsibility of your communication. You no longer argue ‘actually what I meant was’, ‘ no what I intended to say was’, ‘ I think I should have ‘ or in any other way. You flexible and naturally change your approach and get desired outcome.
As Dr. Richard Bandler states, “ There are no inflexible clients, there are only inflexible communicators.”
NLP helps you to add juice and right meaning to your communication.